For a long time now I have been helping men with dating and relationships issues. In my opinion most men fail in the dating and relationship game because of bad information or belief system. I cannot list them all here but here are the 5 biggest influences preventing men from succeeding with beautiful women. Read this list carefully and avoid making any of these mistakes:
Bad Information: Most websites and dating coaches are full of bad information. This can seriously hinder your success with women. For example a prominent dating guru claims that beautiful women pretend to be mean because they are approached all the time.
Every workshop I teach I ask how many students approach good looking women. Less than 1% raise their hands. In reality most men only approach average looking women. It is the average looking women who are frustrated by barrage of men approaching them. Most good looking women are extremely nice and sweet to talk to.
In every workshop I force my students to approach women who are absolutely stunning. To their surprise these women are the nicest they ever talk to.
Make sure you are getting your information from someone who actually knows his stuff.
Incorrect Skills: This in my opinion is the number one attraction killer. Most men, especially the ones who have taken training or read shitty E-Books, have no idea how annoying and unproductive their new acquired skills can be.
One of my coaches in training was a victim of bad information. I was speechless when I met him for the first time. He had really bad energy and body language. He told me that he was following the advice of a very popular dating coach. Upon enquiring further he told me that women usually shut him off even before he opens his mouth. I took him out to fix his body language, energy and tonality. Initially he was resisting my method because it was conflicting to what he had learned. A really cute woman approached him and asked him if he was a model during our drills. He was shocked. He said this has never happened to him in his life. He started following our model and now teaches men how to seduce women. You can read his testimony here.
As a general rule if you are not sleeping with at least 2 different women a month, unless you are in a committed relationship, you probably have traits that are driving women away from you.
Past experience: Many men fear to move forward because of their unsuccessful past. I personally was the victim of this for a long time. I was needy and supplicating in the past. I gifted a woman $4000 diamond bracelet hoping she will sleep with me. I was met with pain and humiliation for this act of mine.
This event scared me. I was afraid to experiment any other approach for a long time. As a consequence I was lonely and suffering night after night. I now cherish these memories. It was the series of such misadventures that led me to study the subject of dating and gain mastery.
If you do not take action you will stay steady. The only way to make progress is by taking action, learning from mistakes, improvising and taking action again till you succeed. Just because it happened yesterday does not mean it will happen today. You are different today than yesterday.
Fear of things going bad: Remember the last time you were attracted to a woman who was your friend, classmate or a coworker. You were afraid to approach her because you were worried that if she says no your relationship with her will take a negative turn. You were afraid that your friendship with this woman will die. You did not want to risk becoming a joke among your classmates and coworkers by approaching this woman.
Only if you had you taken a chance!
Let me assure you that no one thinks of you as a loser foe living your life. Almost everyone is in love or knows they will be in a similar situation. Don’t let other people’s thoughts and opinions bother you. You will never succeed in any area of your life if your actions are controlled by fear of what other people think.
Not knowing what women want: Most men do not know the right way to attract women. Many are clueless how to act in front of women.
There are confusing messages about everything including whether people should use pick up lines or not. This prevents men from seeking help to get better with women and dating.
If you are serious to change your life forever and start dating beautiful women then start by reading “From Approach To Sex in Under 30 Minutes”. This book will teach you all the right and effectives habits to get beautiful women in bed with you. It will answer every question you have in your mind. It will teach you what really works on women. The exercises at the end of every chapter will gradually build your skills with women.
You will never need another resource and will start sleeping with beautiful women in no time.
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