If you want to succeed in the dating game then you need to build comfort around beautiful women. Make friends and spend as much time as you can around beautiful women. The more time you spend around beautiful women the less afraid you will be of them and the more comfortable you will feel when talking to them.
This way when you meet a beautiful woman you are attracted to, it will be no big deal to approach her because you are used to talking to good looking women.
Lot of men get nervous when they see beautiful women. This is because they have not spent enough time around good looking women. They don’t know how good looking women feel and behave. The only image they have of good looking women is what they get from media and what they hear from other people. Unfortunately most of these stories are biased. They present good looking women in a bad light. This incorrect portrayal of hot women makes men anxious and gives them approach anxiety.
A simple solution to overcome this is to become friends with good looking women, spend time with them and get to know them. This way you will know exactly how beautiful women feel and behave. Gradually you will build comfort around them.
Next time you see a woman you find attractive go and become friends with her. Simply walk up to her and say, “You seem interesting! I would love to be friends with you and get to know you. Don’t get any ideas I am only looking for a new friend.”
If you find a girl in your classroom or work that you think is cute go and approach her. Make a small talk with her. If the girl is in the same class as you, ask her for a study session.
If she works with you, ask her to join you for lunch. Say something on the lines. “Hey what time are you taking the lunch break? I could use some company.” Or just say “hey let’s have lunch together.”
It is only polite to ask your colleagues for lunch so she will not say no. You could also approach the girl and say: “Hey I need some advice from you. Join me for lunch or join me for coffee.”
You could also make plans for an evening. This way you will get to spend more time with her and become friends. Say, “Hey I need some advice from you. What are you doing tomorrow evening? ” She might get curious and ask you what it is about. Don’t tell her.
Respond by saying, “Can’t tell you now. Are you free?” or “I will tell you. I just don’t want to talk about it here.” Almost every woman will say yes to this. If she already has plans she will let you know in which case you guys can pick an alternate day.
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