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If you want to establish a sexual relationship with a girl then you will have to show her how you feel. Take action to convey her that you want a romantic relationship. It is much better to demonstrate your intentions rather than vocalizing them. Get sexual with her to let her know that you desire a romantic relationship.
When you are with the girl you want to get romantically involved with, start by getting her in good mood and in a state of high energy. Talk about something you both enjoy or feel excited about.
Keep your energy level high when you discuss this topic. Emotions are addictive! If you experience a state of high energy she will experience it as well.
If you talk about your favorite basket ball team or favorite city to live in, make sure it is the one you both agree on. Keep discussing new topics till you find one you both agree with.
When you find a common topic use it to your advantage. Get excited and acknowledging it out loud and in high energy. Say something on the lines, "my God that is so awesome or Oh My God I love you! That is so awesome!"
Kiss her on both cheeks right after you show your excitement. Continue in one motion and end with a peck on her lips. You can always skip the kiss on the cheeks and go straight for her lips.
Don't go for anything other than a peck at this point. You are trying to convey that you kissed her out of excitement.
Now that you kissed her, you have conveyed your intentions to her. Wait for her to respond. If she is pleasantly surprised go for another kiss. Make it straight to her lips this time and let it be a longer kiss or a full make out.
If she mentions that she is not ready for a romantic relationship, don't worry and play it cool. Don't argue with her, don't try to convince her or make things awkward. Act normal and say, "It's cool. I understand!" Then continue with whatever you guys were talking about so the friendship stays.
Chances are that she will come back to you in few days or maybe the same night after she thinks a little more about this.
Most girls will not vocalize their desire of getting involved in a romantic or sexual relationship with you. After they process what happened and decide that they want to get involved with you, they will send you subtle but obvious signals. Pay close attention to what they say or do. You do not want to miss these signals.
Once you get a signal from her that she is ready for the relationship, test her intentions. Look into her eyes longer than usual, brush on her arms, play with her hair or gently squeeze her hands.
If she does not object to most of these then chances are she is ready to be in a romantic relationship with you.
At this point take a step forward, lean in and kiss her one more time. She will definitely respond with a kiss. Congrats your "girl friend" just became your "girlfriend"! | 
