I am a huge fan of your teachings and have been learning a lot from you.

I have a question. I am 31 years old living in New York. My ultimate goal is to find a beautiful woman and settle down but until that happens I would like to meet women regularly for casual sex. 

What would be the best way to do this?

There is a bar near my house and I was thinking to go there 3-4 nights a week. What is the ideal strategy to approach women at bars? How would I go about proposing the idea of having casual sex?

Thanks Magic and keep up the good work!

-Jeremy

My Answer:

Hi Jeremy,

Majority of single men go to bars and nightclubs to meet women.

These places are full of women so it seems like the obvious choice to go out to meet women.

However bars and clubs are the hardest place to meet women.

You have no control over what type of women you will meet. Your options are limited to whatever women shows up.

Women have their guards up in bars because drunk and sleazy men constantly hit on them. This makes it harder to connect with women at bars.

Women are also bias to hooking up in bars because of the negative image associated with bar meetings.

And it is the combination of these things that make bar a very hard place to meet women compare to other venues.

Research shows that only 6% of couples hookup in bars.

And if you are thinking casual sex 63% of casual sex happens between men and women who are friends and less that 11% casual sex happens between couples who meet at bars.

This does not mean you cannot meet women at bars. We do that every weekend during our sessions.

However as a strategy you are better of meeting women outside bars for relationship.

Bars are definitely a great place to practice your skills because there are a huge number of women to approach in little time.

If something goes wrong who cares because you probably will never meet this woman again.

Your main goal to go to bars and clubs should be to have fun and meet new women as a side benefit.

Approaching Women At Bars – Getting Right Attention

The key to winning women at bars is by standing apart from men there and creating a connection.

Most men who go to bars do not have a game plan.

They rely on the numbers game and approach women after women hoping one would respond positively and things will workout.

When you go to a bar your first goal should be to get noticed and get the right attention.

This can be done in many ways.

Your fashion definitely helps but do not stray too far from normal. Women will have hard time connecting with you if there is visible difference between your lifestyles.

When a woman looks at you she should see a man with good body language, confidence and decent sense of fashion.

Now you come across as a normal man she can date.

You can then engage a group of other people and have fun interaction to demonstrate that you are cool, safe and liked by other people.

You can also make long extended eye contacts with her and exchange a smile.

You can walk up to her right away or wait a bit before you do. If you decide to wait make sure to make eye contact from time to time or she will think you are not into her and the initial eye contact was just a fluke.

Then approach her.

Strategy – Approaching A Woman At A Bar

I highly recommend against using any canned openers.

The more normal you will come across the easier it will be for her to trust and connect.

The best opener in the world is: Hi or Hey.

Don’t ignore her friend and make sure to engage both of them equally.

You do not want to come across socially miscalibrated or too desperate for her.

Then continue the conversation.

Once again avoid pickup routines.

Attraction does not happen because of lines or stories attraction is a direct result of Non-Verbal Elements that you use during your interaction with women.

I usually carry the normal conversation and ask questions on what she does for living and where she lives.

These questions work the best.

However instead of making them sound like an interrogation I use this information to steer conversation.

Based On her answers I can give her a compliment, or tease her or use it as an opportunity to touch her.

And this is where attraction happens.

For instance if she replies she is an accountant I can:

Tease Her: I can tell you are a gold digger and laugh.

Compliment Her: That was refreshing! Thanks for having a real job. I was beginning to think women these days only like goofy gigs like acting or modeling.

It is refreshing to meet someone with a real job.

Nothing against women who want to be entertainers it’s just I was bore of meeting them one after another. (the last part was to ensure I do not sound judgmental towards women with different career)

Steer Conversation: That is funny. I was just having a conversation with my friend on how cool it would be to become an accountant or something similar where most of your job is on computer.

This way you could be sitting in Cancun and working.

I am traveller and ideally want to work from a beach.

Are you a traveller? How often do you travel? Which is your favorite destination and why? (Watch Flirting Manual to learn conversation tips and techniques to interact with women.)

Touch Her: You could use any the compliment to high five her and hold her had a bit longer like I show in the T.E.A.S.E. videos. Or have an extended handshake when introducing yourself or gently hug her when you tease her.

Then all you have to do is to steer conversation in the right direction depending on your goal to become friends with her, get her on a date or to make One-Night-Stand happen.

Learn The Right Way To Meet, Approach And Flirt With Women At Bars

Get Social Mastery Home Study Course to get a blue print on how to meet women in bars and other places and make them feel attraction for you. This program teaches how to meet and attract women at various places including bars.

It will help you develop confidence and overcome approach anxiety.

By the time you are done with this program you will now exactly how to meet women at bars and other places and establish instant connection with them.

Attraction is counterintuitive to most men.

It is not a result of your interaction but the things you do during the interaction.

A woman must begin to see you as the man she would like to date.

Men usually try to win woman by flashing accomplishments in order to make a woman feel attraction for you need to say and do things that effect her on emotional level.

And this is exactly what Social Mastery Home Study Course will teach you.

You can get it here: http://www.attractionmethods.com/tease

Your Friend!

-Magic

Learning how to get women and establishing strong connection is simple but counterintuitive. It does not come naturally to men.

I am about to share a common MISTAKE that prevent men from getting the woman they like.

This flaw in their approach restricts women from experiencing state of ‘deep desire’ that is needed for relationship to happen.

Most men are programmed to be caretakers and protectors by default. This programing hurts their chances with women.

They often make the fatal mistake of treating women ‘special’ when they first meet her. They treat her the way they treat women in their family: ‘with extra care and sensitivity’.

This Is A Big Mistake!

How To Get Women The Right Way!

Attractive women get SPECIAL TREATMENT in various forms all the time. They are used to it and they expect it every time they meet a man.

In most cases if you give compliment to a woman or treat her special she will brush it off or play along for a bit but rarely will she develop feeling for you that is needed to establish the ‘Man-Woman’ relationship.

This does not mean you should not compliment a woman or show interest in her.

You need to do it right. You need to do it differently so you do not come across as an average guy.

You need to develop understanding of the timing and delivery of compliment so a woman starts to experience emotions for you.

You need to go beyond compliment and interact in a manner that will throw her off balance. You need to shake her world and throw her off guard.

When this happens she will invest in you.

Instead of playing hard, she will make an effort to impress you and win your approval. She will work to establish connection with you.

Now leading her to where you want her will be as easy as 1-2-3.

You Can Learn To Get Attractive Women You Like!

If you want to learn how to master the art of striking intense emotions during interaction to generate ATTRACTION, then you should check out: Social Mastery Home Study Course.

This system will teach you how to create dynamics that make women see a special man in you. It teaches you the style of interaction that makes women see you as a man they desire for relationship.

There’s a HUGE opportunity in first meeting with women, but most guys don’t know how to LEAD RIGHT.

The thing to do when you first meet an attractive woman is to TEASE her a bit and mix it with SEXUAL COMPLIMENTS.

On the surface this sounds very simple. But the subtleties’ of this simple technique scrambles her whole program and causes her to lose her composure. She then goes out of her way to win this man who appeals her on emotional level.

I have hundreds of reviews where clients mention how women ended up taking them home after they applied this simple technique from the T.E.AS.E system. Here is one that I received today:

 After getting your online book I had a girl take me home that weekend and now two weeks later another. While I’m slowly learning all you teach I think your book gave me the confidence to push through my social barriers that had built up via being more physical sooner, more playful and showing more direct interest. Thanks keep up the amazing work and fresh perspective on the game.

Click here to see the screen shot. 

This information, behavior, mannerism and approach can be learned quickly and perfected to generate uncontrollable attraction in beautiful women of your choice.

Every man should invest in himself and learn this skill.

Unfortunately, most guys never take the time and invest in themselves… they spend their whole life WISHING they could have an amazing woman in their life.

Truth be told–you can ‘dream’ all you want and you can ‘wish’ all you want, it’s NEVER going happen…

… until you finally TAKE ACTION.

And if you’d like to learn, then I recommend you start by learning the VITAL INFORMATION and TECHNIQUES that have been they KEY to my success.

How To Get Women Home Study Course!

It’s taken me a long time to figure all this stuff out. I invested large amount of time, effort and energy to put this information together so that any guy can learn from the things I’ve discovered.

I invite you to check out my materials. In a matter of hours you will learn things that took me YEARS to figure out and all from the comfort and privacy of your own home.

You can check out the details of that program right here: Social Mastery Home Study Course

It condenses a hundred years of concepts from psychology, behavior, and inner change. This system has interpreted all of this wisdom and gives you a step-by- step, fool-proof system for overcoming inner challenges and interacting with women to make them want to be with you.

Attraction is a two way street. You will NEVER succeed with women unless you learn how to make them want you just like you want them. Social Mastery Home Study Course focuses on teaching you how to make a woman feel the STRONG URGE to be with you.

There is truly nothing else like this program anywhere in the world… and you can check out all the details right here: Social Mastery Home Study Course

I’ll talk to you again soon.

  If you truly want to get better with women and discover things that will make women want you then I highly recommend you visit Attraction Methods and checkout their program on How To Get Women

For a long time I labeled my excuses as fears as well. But now I know that most of your fears are mere excuses or myths. If you do not push yourself to face your fears you will spend most of your life hurting.

I am listing some of these excuses here from my book “From Approaching To Sex In Under 30 Minutes“.

Read these and make a commitment to get rid of your excuses, take action and approach those beautiful women. Make a promise right now to approach two women today after reading this post.

Here are some excuses or internal conflicts that prevent us from making the move:

I am not good looking.

Women are far more attracted to personality than looks. In fact, being a man who is conventionally good looking presents its own set of challenges. Many women feel as though they are players and do not trust them from the outset.

Most guys are not good looking and most women are far more attracted to personality than looks. In fact good looks in men has its own set of challenges. These men come across as players and women don’t trust them. 

 If you display qualities that attract women nothing else matters.

Seal married Heidi Klum – need I say more? Most of the time it is other factors that get you the woman.

Everyone will laugh at me when I get rejected.

Only if you act rejected! No one knows you got rejected unless you leave the set crushed. When a set ends or you get rejected, take it like a man. Smile, shake hands and say it was nice talking with you. Leave with a smile on your face. Women usually are very polite when they reject you.  If they do, BIG FUCKIN’ DEAL!  Everyone, including me, gets rejected.

She probably has a boyfriend.

She probably does – she probably does not! It means nothing. She might be dating him to land the role she has been dying to get or because she has not met anyone like you. She does not want to come across as a loser by being single. I could publish an entire book with stories of women leaving their boyfriends or husbands for someone else.

That guy is probably her boyfriend.

The only way you’re going to find out is if you approach her. Even if he is her boyfriend he’s not likely to kill you. Eight out of ten times the guy will turn out to be her friend because women do not like to go out alone. They feel more secure with having a guy along for the ride; it prevents losers from approaching her. In fact, approaching a woman who is with a guy raises your value. You are seen as a confident, ballsy guy to be able to do that. On numerous occasions I have seen women make out with other guys and provide a phone number in spite of their boyfriend’s presence. Expand your belief system and experience the magic.

Recently I was with a student and I sent him to open a set on the dance floor. The woman was with three guys. I watched from a distance as he opened the set and then became surrounded by the three guys. I approached and found that he wasn’t in trouble as I thought. The men were from France and had traveled to the U.S.; the woman just happened to be with them. In a short time everyone were chummy as old friends – and the man told my friend that the girl was single, to make a move.

Now, I must admit that if I had realized early on that she was with three guys I probably would have not sent this student to open her. I should note that this was his first time in the field but failing to send him would have done him a huge disservice. Valuable lesson learned! Open and don’t worry about dynamics. Let it play out! You’ll be surprised.

She will think poorly of me if I approach her. I will lose value for approaching her.

Au contraire. She will have more respect for you for approaching her as opposed to not approaching her. After all, they go out themselves to meet men.

I was once recording live pick-ups in a bar and a group of women approached me. I talked with them about this very fact. They agreed that they would rather have guys approach them rather than not approach them.  Imagine how crushed they will be if no one approaches them!  You are only respecting women by approaching them, a fact a woman will only confess to a confident man.

She spotted me making out with another girl.

Congratulations! You now have very high value in her eyes! Women love a man that other women want. Why do you think rock stars get laid all the time? In fact, you lose value if you don’t flirt with other women.

One of my ex-girlfriends confessed that she would always let her boyfriend flirt with other women because it increased his confidence and her jealousy level, that the combination resulted in great sex. Needless to say, she didn’t have to apologize to me for being sexual!

I don’t have much to say.

This won’t be true after reading this book and doing the exercises I ask you to do! You will have plenty of material to use. If not, you will learn to create it while in action.

She is a wallflower.

What if the girl is sitting all by herself in the corner? Good news—seduction will be easy. You don’t have to look for an isolated corner to make out with her and this will also ensure less distraction. Chances are that she is shy if she is sitting in a corner by herself.  In this case you will need to do more talking at first. It also means she has not been approached much that night. She will thank you for helping her have fun because she could have been bored the entire night.

 The point cannot be made strongly enough: Women are dying for you to approach them! They want the same thing you do!  Be a Man and seduce her. She will thank you for that! 

I am not in the mood.

Excellent—go and talk to her. This should get you out of your gloomy mood. For Christ’s sake, stop making the damn excuses!

I’ll start tomorrow.

Good—just have some ear plugs ready because the sounds of your roommate fucking her will hurt.

While going to school in New Jersey I lived in a townhouse and roomed with four guys and four girls. There was an attraction between one of the girls and me. One night there was a party for the Seniors and she asked if I wanted to go. “I’m not in the mood,” was my response. My roommate ended up making a move on her while at the party. I cannot tell you how pissed I was listening to them fuck all night long.

Make the excuse today and tomorrow you will say again “I’ll start tomorrow!” It’s a cycle that will never end.

I can only give you advice. I cannot make you go and do what you are supposed to do.

Need motivation? Go back to page 30 and read the bullet points. The sooner you start your journey, the sooner you will reach your destination. Everything else can wait! 

RULE:

From now on, anytime you have an excuse as to why you should not approach the woman you MUST approach her to prove to yourself that you were making an excuse.

Read “From Approaching To Sex in under 30 Minutes” and discover techniques to train your mind to stop fearing beautiful women and start dating them. Try risk free for 30 days and see the results.

When you meet her make sure you don’t end up hitting on her. The ideal thing would be to ask her opinion on some girl you are interested in or her opinion on some relationship topic etc. Women love giving advice on relationships.

Ask questions to get to know her as well. Ask about her interests, life and boyfriend as well.

This way she will not be bored just talking about you. By asking about her boyfriend you will also make it obvious that you are not trying to get with her. It will also help you bond with her and establish comfort. Now you are on your way to have a beautiful woman friend in your life.

Try to have as much fun as you can so things don’t get boring. You want her to hang out with you again but she will not do this unless she has fun with you.

From this point on you keep calling her once in a while. Make small personal talks when you meet her at school or at work. Few days down the road make plans again to hangout or watch a movie. You could also ask her to wing you and give feedback.

Imagine how good it will feel when you go to a bar or club with her. Think of the value you will get when you walk into a bar or a club with a hot woman.

Do not be afraid to meet her boyfriend if she asks to. Remember you have nothing to be afraid of because you are not trying to get with her.

Start becoming friends and spending time with beautiful women and soon you will feel comfortable around beautiful women. Then when you see a beautiful woman you will have no hesitation approaching her.

Find out ways you can meet and date beautiful women on regular basis. Read “From Approaching To sex In Under 30 Minutes” to build confidence and discover techniques which will get you beautiful women.

This way when you meet a beautiful woman you are attracted to, it will be no big deal to approach her because you are used to talking to good looking women.

Lot of men get nervous when they see beautiful women. This is because they have not spent enough time around good looking women. They don’t know how good looking women feel and behave. The only image they have of good looking women is what they get from media and what they hear from other people. Unfortunately most of these stories are biased. They present good looking women in a bad light. This incorrect portrayal of hot women makes men anxious and gives them approach anxiety.

A simple solution to overcome this is to become friends with good looking women, spend time with them and get to know them. This way you will know exactly how beautiful women feel and behave. Gradually you will build comfort around them.

Next time you see a woman you find attractive go and become friends with her. Simply walk up to her and say, “You seem interesting! I would love to be friends with you and get to know you. Don’t get any ideas I am only looking for a new friend.”

If you find a girl in your classroom or work that you think is cute go and approach her. Make a small talk with her. If the girl is in the same class as you, ask her for a study session.

If she works with you, ask her to join you for lunch. Say something on the lines. “Hey what time are you taking the lunch break? I could use some company.” Or just say “hey let’s have lunch together.”

It is only polite to ask your colleagues for lunch so she will not say no. You could also approach the girl and say: “Hey I need some advice from you. Join me for lunch or join me for coffee.”

You could also make plans for an evening. This way you will get to spend more time with her and become friends. Say, “Hey I need some advice from you. What are you doing tomorrow evening? ” She might get curious and ask you what it is about. Don’t tell her.

Respond by saying, “Can’t tell you now. Are you free?” or “I will tell you. I just don’t want to talk about it here.” Almost every woman will say yes to this. If she already has plans she will let you know in which case you guys can pick an alternate day.

Try “From Approaching To Sex In Under 30 Days” at no risk. This book will change your dating life forever. You will learn techniques to build confidence around good looking women and date them using simple strategies taught in the book.

Real Social Dynamics

Real Social Dynamics

RSD (RSD Nation)

Real Social Dynamics is an interesting company. Real Social Dynamics has been in controversy from the beginning of dawn. Real Social Dynamics was criticized in the book “The Game” by Neil Strauss. Real Social Dynamics is often compared to a cult because of their teaching methodology. Real Social Dynamics is probably the most criticized company in the pickup scene.

I have to be perfectly honest guys that I have never read a single post or book from Real Social Dynamics. As a matter of fact I have not read or heard any product from any company in the community. I have never visited the website for Real Social Dynamics or watched any of their videos either.

I have trained couple students in the past that had previous training from Real Social Dynamics. In fact one of them claims to be the co founder of Real Social Dynamics. This student claims that he invented the 12 student boot camp design while working for Real Social Dynamics. I have no way to verify this. I have to admit that these students from Real Social Dynamics had weird personality and very messed up way of approaching and seducing women. But then I did not know how they were before they got any training from Real Social Dynamics.

It is very possible that these guys were way messed up even before they took training from Real Social Dynamics. It is possible that the messed up version I was seeing in these students was their better version from taking Real Social Dynamics boot camp. But it is also possible that these guys were normal guys before they took Real Social Dynamics Workshops and were screwed up after the training.

One of my coaches in training took a Real Social Dynamics workshop in the past and asked for refund even before the three days were over. This guy has real high standards. He has taken refunds from majority of companies. There are very few coaches he is impressed by. He not liking Real Social Dynamics is understandable because he is just a perfectionist.

The truth is I cannot pass any judgment until I have more facts on Real Social Dynamics. However based on the limited experience with couple of their students I do believe that Real Social Dynamics instructors failed to correct some major personality flaws these students had. But as I mentioned this is a statement against Real Social Dynamics with little or no evidence to back it up. This is just my opinion.

On the flip side I have lot of respect for Tyler Durden from Real Social Dynamics. Sometime back I heard that he was taking a break from Real Social Dynamics and learning from Anthony Robbins. This is huge in my book. An instructor who is not only teaching but also focused on continuous self improvement is worth my respect. Kudos to that!

When it comes to live training Real Social Dynamics like other companies teach 12 student boot camps. I have already mentioned that I am not a big fan of teaching a large group. I believe that in order for your students to succeed you have to devote lot of individual time and attention to them during training. You have to calibrate the session to who your students are and where they stand with their dating life. This is almost impossible to do in a big group setting that Real Social Dynamics use. This is also the reason why 3 out of 4 students I trained last year ended up sleeping with women within a week of training if not during the session itself.

You can find out more about our training program here: Pick Up Artist Training

Love Systems

Love Systems  

Love Systems is one of the hardest to comment on. Look guys I have worked for Love Systems in the past so obviously I have my biases. I used to work in office managing Love systems’ website. Granted I never coached for Love Systems but I still have close association with them. I have lot of respect for Savoy who runs Love Systems because he offered me a job when I was moving to LA so I could support myself. He took me to Play Boy mansion on his dime and was very supportive when I started my company. 

Obviously working for Love Systems I made friends within the company. So there is no way I can analyze any one at Love Systems. I love the company and am their well wisher for life. 

I have to admit though that Love Systems in my opinion is the most professional and corporate like entity in the dating field. This is a very good thing because they bring consistency in what they do. You will always get Love Systems news letters on time and you will always have professional venues when you take a workshop with Love Systems. Love systems continuously update their website and are much focused to get media attention. 

When it comes to methodology, Love Systems is again focused on consistency. They have their Love systems model and they teach it to all of their students. This is awesome because then you know what you are going to get from taking a Love Systems workshop. 

This is also where I differ from Love systems. I have no model. In my sessions I observe students the first night and then draw a plan based on my evaluation. I believe that all students are different. They all stand at a different level. They have unique challenges and need unique solutions to advance their game with women. I make my students interact with women and see how they come across to women. Then I tweak a few things to see if women react differently. Then based on my evaluation I design drills and exercises for the remaining workshop. I believe it is a waste of time to teach how to approach women if students are already good at it. I prefer to devote more time to the areas that students are struggling with. This is how students get faster results. 

However this is a challenge when you have multiple students. This is where Love Systems professionalism and corporate structure help them teach boot camps of 12 students. This gives students the opportunity to train with a large group of peers some of them end up becoming friends. We on the contrary cannot give individual attention to 12 students so we keep our class size small to 4 students and 2 instructors. 

I guess at the end we both have our plus and minuses. Love Systems are more professional and organized to teach 12 student workshops. Students get to enjoy the experience with a large group of peers. We on the contrary can’t provide the experience of a large group but the advantage is more individual attention, a personally customized workshop and more time with instructors. 

I guess this is the best I can summarize Love Systems vs. us.

If you need more information on our training programs call 1-352-432-8464 (352-4-Dating) or Email: info@attractionmethods.com. Click the link to get more information on our Pick Up Artist Bootcamp.   

Yes looks matter but not as much as you would think. If you look like a male super model for sure approaching women will be real easy. However your looks do not guarantee that you will be able to seduce the woman and get a relationship out of your interaction.

Men usually judge women by their looks. We pay attention to physical features like breasts, proportion, skin tone, hair, eyes, lips, height etc. So it is only natural for us to think that women judge us on the same scale.

However women are more attracted to personality, fashion, grooming and attitude. Women prefer men who are strong and confident. They value humor in a man. They are seduced by a man who is in control and not afraid to take risks. Women find a man who is neat, well groomed and bit trendy to be attractive. Women enjoy the company of men who make them experience different emotions.

At the end of the day it all boils down to how a woman feels around you? Does she feel feminine and sexual around you? Do you take charge and make the move or are you a shy man who can’t even make an eye contact.

Compared to men women have less social freedom to date around. For biological reasons and social pressures women can’t sleep around with hundreds of men or date for 50 years before they settle down.

This is why it is very important for women to make sure they end up with the right guy who will be able to take care of all their emotional and physical needs.

Yes looks matter but personality, charm, confidence and skill set are way more potent and effective than looks alone. With the right tools you can cast a first impression so strong that women will want to meet you and talk to you. Imagine how easy it will be to seduce a woman if she is already curious and wanting to get to know you.

Sign up for our 3 day live training program. In this program not only will you get the right looks that will attract women but you will master the skill set to approach and seduce women anywhere – anytime. This coaching program comes with a 100% money back guarantee so either you succeed with women or get your money back! Find out more about this program by visiting our page on Pick Up Artist Workshop.

Truth be told most men will be way more successful if they spent some time strategizing where to meet women and how to meet them.

You have to meet the right woman to be in a satisfactory relationship. Most men suffer endlessly in bad relationships because they do not spend time to figure out what kind of women they want to date. They do not make any effort contemplating: What is it that they want in a woman and where to find that kind of a woman.

Most men take the convenient path of going to bars and clubs. They fail to recognize that they are competing against a large number of men to win a woman at a bar. They would easily seduce these women under different circumstances but because these women are tired of getting hit on all evening they have their defense shields up. This makes it harder to seduce women at bars and clubs compared to other venues.

I am not saying relationships don’t happen in bars and clubs. In fact we pick up women at bars and clubs all the time but as I mentioned you have to make much less effort when you approach women outside of bars. We chose bars and clubs for training because there is a constant flow of women and you get to practice on more women in a shorter amount of time.

Ask yourself these questions:

1. What kind of relationship are you looking for? Are you looking for a serious and a committed relationship or are you at a phase where you simply want to date multiple women.
2. What Qualities, physical, intellectual and/or spiritual, are you looking for in a woman? Are you looking for a skinny or curvy, artist or professional, sensual or strong? Make a list of those qualities.
3. Where will you meet this kind of a woman? If you are looking for a musician you have better chances of finding them in environments where musicians go. Find the venues where musicians usually crowd at night. Think the kind of jobs they will take to support themselves. Then go there to meet these women.
4. How can you position yourself in those environments so you have an advantage over these women?  Once you have narrowed down to the kind of women you want to meet and know the places you want then think the kind of men who will be in that environment. How can you position yourself to come across as more attractive and desirable?

The game of dating is real easy and lot of fun. You can discover strategies that will change your life forever. With few simple exercises and practical tips you can master the skill set to position yourself effectively. You can learn the rules of the game to meet and date beautiful women on a consistent basis.

Read “From Approaching To Sex In Under 30 Minutes”. This book will give you the skills of Casanova to meet women and pull them home for sex the same night.

Most men want to know how to kiss a woman. You need to ensure that the girl wants to get romantic with you before you initiate that first kiss.

1. Gently stroke the hair of this woman and see how she responds.

2. Hold one of her hand or both of them and gently squeeze them.

3. Slowly brush her arm looking into her eyes.

Measure her responses to your moves. If she responds positively to two of those then you know she is ready to be kissed by you. Don’t worry if she does not squeeze your hand back or doesn’t brush your arm. She is ready to be kissed as long as she does not ask you to stop or walk away from you.

Once you have tested that she is ok to be kissed.

1. Step slowly towards her or pull her close.

2. Look in her eyes.

3. Lean forward.

4. Kiss her on the lips.

It is a good idea to start with a peck on her lips and follow it up with a longer kiss if she does not object.

There is no need to pull back after you kiss her the first time. You could stay in the kiss position, take another look in her eyes and go for the long kiss.

It is possible that the woman may pull back when you go for the kiss even if she complied with all you tests. Don’t assume she does not like you or don’t want you to kiss her because she pulled back.

It just means that she did not see the kiss coming. She was a little surprised when you went for the kiss. It could be bad timing or maybe you did not relay your intentions strong enough before you went for the kiss.

If you do the above three tests it will reduce the chances of a girl not knowing your intentions.

If the woman does not want you to kiss her again she will tell you or walk away from you. If she does neither of those and continues to stay and participate you can conclude that she wants to be kissed by you and wasn’t ready the first time.

Test her comfort again by running the above three tests one more time.

If she does not object to any of your touches you can go in for the kiss again and it will happen this time.

Few additional tips:

 Make sure to use some breath fresheners or mint before you kiss the girl.

. Don’t start professing your love to the girl right after you kiss her. It is too early in the game.

. It is always a good idea to shave before the kiss else you will scratch her face.

. Don’t try to kiss her in front of her friends when you kiss her the first time.

. Don’t get upset if she rejects you. Don’t try to convince her or argue with her.

. You can make things a bit more romantic by holding her hands or hold her on the hips when kissing. You could also whisper something in her ears between breaks from kissing. Try playing with her hair. Most girls love it. Whisper and go back for another kiss. Make it a long one this time.

. Try not to wait for the end of the night or for the goodbye moment to initiate the first kiss. It is too cliche`d.

. Don’t get all awkward after you kiss hey. Don’t go all sexual either unless you are absolutely sure that she would be ok with it. You do not want to make things awkward or ruin the moment by coming across as uncomfortable or desperate.

Read “From Approaching To Sex In Under 30 Minutes” E-Book to master the skill set needed to approach and seduce beautiful women on regular basis.